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A woman's life often feels like it’s designed by someone who loves multitasking to the extreme! From the moment she’s born👶, it’s like society hands her a to-do list that just keeps growing.As a girl, she's expected to be a model student👩‍🎓, the perfect daughter👪, and somehow manage to be polite, graceful, and ambitious all at once. Then comes adulthood, where she’s balancing a career, relationships, and possibly a family, all while trying to maintain some semblance of a social life and self-care.

And if she decides to get married, add "wife"👫 to the list.You know, there's this thing called "Mother-in-Law's Torture"😈. And no, it’s not some ancient medieval punishment; it’s a very modern, ongoing phenomenon that seems to be alive and well in many households. You’d think marriage was a love story, right? But for some, it feels like the in-laws have read the wrong script!

It’s like, "Congratulations on your wedding!👰 Here's your new title😅: Personal Assistant, Housekeeper, and All-Round Doer of Everything!" Seriously, are they married or bought on sale at the in-law’s favorite discount store? It’s almost like a game show, “How Much Can You Handle Before You Break?” And let me tell you, the challenges are endless—cooking👩‍🍳, cleaning🧹, doing laundry🧺, running errands—sometimes all at once! Meanwhile, they're probably wondering, "Did I sign up for a marriage or a 24/7 reality show?"But hey, don’t forget, they're human beings too! They have hopes, dreams, and yeah, maybe a bit of sanity left—if they’re lucky. So next time you see someone caught in the in-law matrix, give them a high five (or maybe a cup of coffee). They’re doing the real hard work!
Let's respect each other and treat everyone being equal and not repeat the evil behaviour on anyone and set a good example for the future generations.

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